Mum guilts - How far do you push your dancer?
To push your dancer or not to push your dancer - that is the question that plagues many dance mums, dads, and guardians. On one hand, you want to help your dancer succeed and reach their full potential. On the other hand, you don't want to push them too hard and risk causing them stress or burnout. And then there's the added guilt of being "that parent" who pushes their child too much. It's a tough balancing act, but here are a few things to consider:
If you push your dancer too hard, they might end up like a wilted flower on the dance floor. All droopy and sad, with their petals falling off one by one. Not exactly the graceful, elegant performance you were hoping for! And the mum guilt? Oh, it'll be through the roof.
·On the other hand, if you don't push them enough, they might end up like a sloth on the dance floor. Slow, sluggish, and not exactly a crowd-pleaser. And the mum guilt? It'll still be there, lurking in the back of your mind.
So what's the solution? The key is finding a happy medium. Push your dancer just enough to help them grow and improve, but not so much that they wilt or crumble under the pressure. Like Goldilocks and the Three Bears, you want to find the porridge that's just right - not too hot, not too cold, but juuuust right. And as for the mum guilt? It's a normal and natural part of parenting, so try not to let it weigh you down too much. In fact, you could even turn it into a dance move: the "mum guilt cha-cha"!
And remember, dancing is supposed to be fun! You don't want to turn into one of those uptight dance mums who take yourself way too seriously. Where's the fun in that?
So don't forget to inject a little bit of laughter and joy into the mix. After all, it's not called the "fancy footwork" for nothing - there's plenty of room for silly faces and playful antics on the dance floor.
So to push or not to push? In the end, it's all about finding the right balance. Push your dancer to be their best, but also be mindful of their well-being and happiness. As long as you strike that balance, you'll be doing the dance-tastic two-step in no time! And as for the mum guilt? It'll always be there to some extent, but try to let it go and focus on supporting and encouraging your dancer in a positive way.
And if all else fails, just bust out the "mum guilt cha-cha" and dance your way through the tough times.
